The Final Trimester

Ya Allah, please ease this soon to end journey. I'm tired already.

Not Ar Ridzuan again.

After considering like 1000 times, I decided not to give birth to Baby L in Pusat Perubatan Ar Ridzuan, Ipoh this time.

Reasons :

1. Right after Vivy keluar haritu, the doc/nurses takde plak dtg tunjukkan Vivy to me. They should actually bring the baby to me, and confirmkan..mcm "This is your baby, she's a girl" . Unfortunately Ar Ridzuan tak buat mcm tu. Dorg terus amik Vivy utk bersihkan and panggil Hubs utk azankan.

2. Lepas bersihkan lebih kurang, they should actually give Vivy to me within 1 hour after dia keluar, utk bonding session and to let the baby latch on me for the 1st time. Ni tak, lepas azankan dorang terus bwk Vivy pegi nursery, to feed her with the formula milk, without even asking me first.

3. Dah lepas keluarkan uri, jahit episotomi semua, I was left in the labor room for recovery for like half an hour lepastu ditolak masuk ke single room. Asyik la tanya Hubs mana baby mana baby, Mommy tak jumpa lagi. Bleh imagine tak kau bwk dia ke hulu hilir 38 minggu, lepas baby keluar terus dibawak pergi nursery without even showing her to me skali pun. I think after 3 hours kot baru i met Vivy for the first time. Dalam keadaan dia dah kenyang :(

4. Vivy keluar dgn bantuan vakum. I was too tired due to 20 hours in pain, plus I was too high due to the laughing gas. Mmg lalok gila I can't even focus masa meneran tu. Lepas jumpa Vivy the first thing I saw was ada luka segaris kat kepala dia. And takde sape pun dtg explain kenapa jadi mcm tu. Sampai la I asked the nurse, and she said "oh maybe ni kena masa Doc pecahkan air ketuban tadi"

5. Ar Ridzuan tak provide epidural. Sekian.

Tu jelah. Haritu mcm takde nak komplen ape2. Tapi bila baca2 balik and fikir logik2 balik, rasa tak puas hati sket la. Bil mmg murah (total bill was 1.8k) tapi hati tak berapa senang pun susah jugak.

So this time InsyaAllah akan bersalin di Pantai Puteri Hospital Ipoh under Datin Dr. Mimin. I will write the review later InsyaAllah.

Reasons for considering Pantai Puteri :

1. They provide epidural 24/7. Tu mmg major requirement this time. Although sume gynaes yg daku jumpa sume kate I might not need any pain killer sbb gap Baby L and Vivy sgt dekat. TAPI, prepare jela siap2 utk sebarang kemungkinan contraction 20 jam lagi. huhu.

2. Baby friendly hospital. Although they don't have the certificate, but after reading some reviews and dah confirmkan dgn Dr Mimin sendiri, they truly support breastfeeding in the hospital.

3. Dorang pun ade pakej bersalin, around 1.8k for normal delivery, 2D1N including the paed fee + immunization shot. Epidural costs around rm800. C-zer delivery will cost around 5k-6k. 

Tu jela kot. Buat masa ni. Wuuuu dah nak masuk 35weeks. Nervousssssssssss. Bukan nervous nak beranak, tapi nervous memikirkan how to handle 2 babies at the same time haha.

14mo Lily Viviana

Persiapan Bersalin/Berpantang ver. #2

Hehehehehe
Berhabuk dah blog, tup-tup update nak bagitau i'm actually carrying another angel in my tummy now, and she's almost 32 weeks already lol ;p

Saja nak list kan kat sini as a reminder for myself. Kot-kot bleh dijadikan panduan untuk projek no 3, eh ! (lempang diri sendiri laju-laju)

For Mommy :

1. Tanamera Cold Press Virgin Coconut Oil - Done

2. Tanamera Brown Formulation Soap - Done

3. Losyen Mustajab Extra Hot - Done

4. Bengkung (masih mencari-cari yg praktikal, or maybe guna yg lama je)

5. Supplements - Trial Set 3M (set berpantang + menyusu) Shaklee - Done

6. Maternity Pad & Disposable Briefs - Done

For Baby :

1. Newborn Diapers

2. Swaddle - Done

3. Feeding Bottles

4. Baby Cot - Bought from Mothercare with 60% discount yippieeee

Ok reason for not buying any confinement set this time sebab rasa membazir, last time beli set Nona Roguy tapi pakai 2 3 items je kot dlm kotak tu. So kali ni beli all loose items yg rasa betul2 akan pakai je. For baby, barang sikit sebab barang kakak die semua elok2 lagi. Serious kadang2 rasa bersalah sebab masa nk sambut Vivy dulu beria-ia tapi untuk adik mcm taktau nak beli ape. Maybe sebab rasa Vivy pun kecik lagi, so baju2 dia semua bleh share dgn adik. Tunggu lepas pantang pegi shopping dgn 2 babies baru syok kot beli baju hihi.

Ok nanti update lg.